👋 Welcome back to AI Parenting Guide!

My niece’s “amazing” history essay raised some eyebrows — it had flawless grammar and obscure facts about Napoleon. Turns out, she copied a ChatGPT draft word-for-word.

She said, “I didn’t cheat — I just used it to help me.”

So, how can we spot when AI is doing the homework… and how do we guide our kids without turning into the homework police?

📬 In This Issue:

• Signs your child may be secretly using AI

• How to talk about academic honesty (without lecturing)

• When AI tools can be useful for learning

• This week’s career spotlight: tutoring vs automated grading

🔍 How to Tell if AI Did the Work

You might notice:

• Essays with perfect structure but zero voice

• Vague or overly polished answers that don’t match your child’s usual style

• Homework finished oddly fast (especially writing or coding tasks)

• Use of phrases your child doesn’t normally say

These aren’t proof — but they’re good reasons to start a conversation.

🗣️ What to Say (Instead of “Did You Cheat?”)

• “How did you get started on this?” (see if they mention using a tool)

• “Which parts were hardest?” (gauge how much thinking they actually did)

• “Can you talk me through your process?” (encourages reflection)

• “What would you say differently?” (helps them take ownership)

✅ Smart Ways to Use AI for Learning

AI can help — when used with effort:

• Brainstorming ideas, not full essays

• Rephrasing drafts, not replacing them

• Practising quizzes or flashcards

• Getting feedback — not final answers

💬 Conversation Starters

“Do you think using AI is the same as copying from a friend?”
“How can you tell when it’s ‘help’ and when it’s too much?”
“What do teachers expect when it comes to using tech?”

💼 How AI Is Changing Jobs

🟢 Safe Job: Private Tutor
One-on-one coaching, emotional encouragement, and adapting to a student’s style — still very human.

⚠️ At-Risk Job: Essay Grader (Basic)
Many schools already use AI to check grammar and score short answers. It’s fast… but not always fair.

🧰 Resource of the Week

Tool: Grammarly
Great for catching typos and rewording — but encourage your child to write the first draft solo.

📣 Tell Your Friends

Know a parent who just got a smart speaker or whose kid is glued to ChatGPT?
Forward this email or send them here: aiparentingguide.com

🔜 Coming Next Week

Screen Time vs Smart Time: Can AI Help Kids Learn Better?
We’ll look at how to shift AI from distraction to productivity — and which apps actually work.

📚 Reading of the Week: The Art of Screen Time by Anya Kamenetz

Struggling to find the right balance between screens and real-life moments? The Art of Screen Time offers evidence-based, practical strategies to help your family navigate tech use without the guilt. Unlike heavier reads on digital citizenship, Kamenetz keeps it light and relatable, answering the big question: "How much tech is okay?" Perfect for parents who want a flexible, research-backed approach to raising kids in a digital world.

👉 Visit Anya’s website for more..

P.S. Want more? Reply to this email with your biggest screen-time challenge—we might feature tips in a future issue!

That’s it for this week.

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See you next week,
— Ed
& Roro (our teal robot sidekick 🤖)